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I wanted to include some good 'how to' information on having anal sex and Tantra Magazine had about the best infomation I could find. This free adult sex guide site is a very useful resource for everything you ever wanted to know about sex. From Tantra and Kama Sutra to penis enlargement and myths about men and women, as well as jokes and fantasy stories.
Below are some good pointers on how to perform anal sex from Miss Trick at Tantra Mag.
But first, here's
A F E W I M P O R T A N T P O I N T E R S F R O M M E
1. USE LOTS OF LUBRICATION! That's probably the most important part of making it less painful for HER. Once it hurts, it's all over. There's no going back, and good luck getting her to try it again.
2. Start off small and work your way up! You can't just go shoving a big hard cock in there, especially if she's never had it before. (You'll never get it again). Try starting with just a finger, then move up to a small toy, followed by a bigger (actual dick sized) toy or dildo. Then you're ready for the real deal.
3. Did I mention LOTS OF LUBRICATION? ;) I've tried a few lubricants out there, and my personal favorite is Body Butter. A friend of mine swears by Sex Grease. Contrary to popular belief, Vaseline and KY aren't very slippery, and while some may like them, I, personally, wouldn't recommend them for anal sex lube, but that's just my opinion.
M I S S T R I C K A N S W E R S Y O U R Q U E S T I O N S
Q: I want to try anal sex but I don't want to end up hurting my girlfriend, so which are the best positions for it?
A: First of all you have to ask her if she feels any attraction to this kind of lovemaking. If both of you want to try anal sex then you have to know some important things:
- You have to relax and excite her so that her vaginal and anal muscles become very relaxed and dilated. Therefore, it is better to try it anally after you make love normally.
- Use some soft cream or vegetable oils and gently massage, with your forefinger and middle finger her anal opening. You could even insert your lubricated forefinger into her anus in order to gradually stimulate her desire for this kind of lovemaking.
- The rear entry position and even the missionary one are very suitable for this type of penetration.
- After anal intercourse it is not recommended to continue with vaginal thrusts because the colon is full with micro-organisms and you could end up with an infection such as candida. So, if you want to make love normally after anal thrusts I advise you to carefully wash your penis.
- Also, you have to penetrate your lover very gently so that do not end up causing her to feel pain. Stop penetrating if she says it hurts her and start again when she feels it is OK.
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